Episode 171

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23rd Sep 2024

Ep 171 – How to clear your Emotional Overdraft with Andy Brown

When I was sent a book called The Emotional Overdraft I instinctively knew that this was a topic that was going to resonate with me personally and you as listeners to this podcast.  

 

An emotional overdraft is when you as a leader habitually overcome your employer’s challenges at the cost of our own physical and mental health. Sound familiar?

 

I am seeing this happening a LOT at the moment with the women within my Women Leading community so I was excited to dive into the topic with the book’s author Andy Brown.

 

We discussed:

  • The cost of going too deep into your emotional overdraft
  • How to start paying it back
  • What behaviours or drivers create our emotional overdraft
  • The role of management skills and influencing in changing a culture which relies on people being emotionally overdrawn
  • How to approach urgency and filling short term gaps more strategically
  • How the emotional overdraft shows up outside of work

 

My name’s Carla Miller, leadership coach, author and trainer. And this is the Influence & Impact podcast for women leaders, helping you confidently navigate the ups and downs of leadership and feel less alone on your journey as a leader.  In fortnightly episodes I share practical tools and insights from myself and my brilliant guests that will help you succeed in your career.

 

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⭐ Mastering your mindset

⭐ Courageous conversations

⭐ Speaking up 

 

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⭐ Set boundaries and expectations

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About Andy Brown:

Andy has over 30 years’ experience as an award-winning adviser and coach for people-based businesses. He’s also a podcast host and the author of Amazon #1 best seller, ‘The Emotional Overdraft: 10 simple changes for balancing business success and wellbeing’ a book for entrepreneurs, leaders and founders that articulates the often overlooked mental and physical costs of leadership

 

Links from Andy:

 

Buy the book in the UK 

Complete the free Emotional Overdraft Self-Assessment 

Connect with Andy 

Follow Emotional Overdraft on Instagram 

Get all the latest Emotional Overdraft articles 

 

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About the Podcast

Influence & Impact for Leaders
with Carla Miller
This is Influence & Impact for Leaders, the podcast that helps leaders like you increase your impact and build a happy and high performing team. Each episode delivers focused, actionable insights you can implement immediately, to be better at your job without working harder.

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Carla Miller

Carla Miller has 16 years of leadership coaching experience, a background in CEO roles in the charity and commercial sector and is an established expert in women’s leadership. She is the creator of the Influence & Impact program which has helped hundreds of women from companies including GSK, BT, Google, Channel 4, Muller and Deloitte to become influential leaders and secure promotions to senior leadership and C suite roles. She is the host of the global top 2% Influence & Impact podcast and has over 220,000 downloads. Her book ‘Closing the Influence Gap: A practical guide for women leaders who want to be heard’ is an Amazon bestseller for leadership and was named by Management Today as one of the books every leader should read in 2022.